BY brainwirez Updated July 2, 2019
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Time to get past all the negative shit and just accept it – she’s with him and not you and you’re not privy to their relationship. It has NOTHING to do with you and your relationships (or lack there of) and it’s a total waste of time to think negatively about it or them. We look at the girl, we see the guy she’s with, and we automatically assume he must be a jerk – and we don’t even know him, her, or how the relationship even got started. Forget about sex.
If you two are really meant for each other, your friend may understand. Talk with your friend and tell them how you feel before you try to ask their sister to be your girlfriend.
Life is never predictable. Therefore, do the best with the information you have, and make the best choices based on the situation. If things go awry, and she doesn’t reciprocate your advances or feelings, don’t act needy or lose your confidence.
You are not there to focus on what is coming in return If you are feeling pain in your relationship, it’s a sign that you are not giving to your lover or your girlfriend, what you need to be giving. It means give her your presence. Make her laugh, show her a good time, take her out for fun, it means doing all the little things that make your partner happy. Date a girl who is datable and makes her man life easier and meaningful, don’t date girl who is always radiating negativity out of her and making your life miserable which will make you think that love is all crap and you don’t want to fell for anyone and give commitment.
So unless you have enough adventurous and fun stuff to last you each week throughout the length of the relationship, it’s better to gradually build up to this type of stuff over time, and instead opt for relaxed dates like dinner at your place, movies, etc. This will help you keep the excitement going later on. Develop the “approach habit”.
Have high expectations. Having high expectations of people communicates to them that you are high status and not a pushover. This is incredibly attractive to women because it shows her you respect and love yourself.
I mean, if you and your girl do not connect in bed, the relationship won’t last. I mean, you can have Tinder and meet people that way, but it’s usually more fun when you go out and meet people when you least expect it. Like at a grocery store, swimming pool, or library.
Don’t assume anything and don’t tell her she “should” do anything. It’s not about being in the friend zone, it’s about showing you care. But when it comes to getting girls to fall head over heels in love, all a guy really needs to do is show his lady friend that he really cares about her. A lot of guys try to talk themselves up so they’re “worthy” to pick up the girl they’re on a date with.
As I mentioned earlier, you can’t time when that right someone will walk into your life. It’s easy to say, “I want to be single until I’m 28 or 30, then I’ll find a serious girlfriend.” Well, good luck with that. Having some confidence in yourself will get you so far. And once you get the girl of your dreams, read this article on how to be real-life relationship goals.
There are 7 billion people on Earth, and 3.5 billion of them are women. Of those, 2 billion are potentially datable.
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