BY brainwirez Updated July 9, 2019
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Plenty of people reject the idea of labels, but it helps to call her your girlfriend when is she your girlfriend. It sets parameters and expectations. The key to making the transition from meeting someone to sleeping with them is seeding the idea early on.
Because the more you know, the more prepared you’ll be for any situation — and the easier you’ll find it to attract girls, and make one of them your girlfriend. And remember, this stuff isn’t set in stone. Forming a relationship is not a set of rigid sequences. Rather, it’s a rocky road with unexpected turns and twists — and it’s different for everyone. The steps presented here will definitely help you.
Fortunately, it can be solved by simply reading a few good books on the topic. The man I recommend the most on the topic is David DeAngelo. He shows you exactly what it takes to create massive attraction and get that girl you’ve been wanting. When dating, each subsequent date must progress more and more. If the first date as great and the second is a flop, then you can kiss (or not) that potential girlfriend goodbye.
Don’t pretend to have something in common with a girl to get her attention. This usually backfires because she’ll eventually realize you’re lying. People are more attracted to you when you seem happy with your life, so this can help you find a relationship. When a friend invites you to do something, always ask if others will be there.
So, if you want to bring out that side of her, make sure that you make her feel a lot of attraction for you, get to a kiss, have sex with her and then don’t push for a relationship. Yes, that can work with some women, but with most attractive women that you meet, their dream is to be able to meet a guy who makes them feel like they need to live up to his expectations.
It’s no longer just you. It’s we. Before you jump into the “we,” you need to make sure you’re able to commit to a relationship. I’m not saying the girl you meet will end up being there for the rest of your life.
This type of rejection totally sucks but it’s worse if you don’t recognize it. Be wary, when a girl is hooked, she’s hooked and you can’t do anything about it. Move on fast for your own good please.
It demonstrates that you are the protector of your own values and your people. And it makes a woman want to be numbered among “your people” in the future. The next steps are meeting the family and moving her into your place. These parts of a relationship take time and investment, but you have to tackle them if you’re looking to elevate your connection. You have to move from uncertainty to certainty, and that means putting a label on the relationship.
Part of this “prep work” is to lay the foundation for a lifetime of success with women. If you settle too quickly you WILL revert back to your older self and you WILL lose the girl and then have to start all over again. If you settle too early it’s highly likely you’re going to screw it up sooner or later anyways. Getting a girlfriend is NOT getting the next “hot” girlfriend you see. Let’s say you land some hot girl by your side and she’s seems really into you – without blowing it entirely with you (you can keep her around to date) but until you’re ready do NOT settle down with her.
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