BY brainwirez Updated April 8, 2019
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On the date start by complimenting her. Women can spend hours choosing a dress, putting on make up and doing their hair for the first date. She’s done this all for you don’t forget to show your appreciation with an honest compliment. Stop trying to get a girlfriend.
It’s damned if you do, damned if you don’t. So while I appreciate the time and effort you put into writing such a heartwarming, fairytale love story, I must say touché good sir.
You will be able to tell fast from her reaction whether you’re gong to have a “next” encounter or not. The minute you accept the fact that failure is a part of life, one step close to winning the lottery, that’s when your’e going to get the girl you want.
It demonstrates that you are the protector of your own values and your people. And it makes a woman want to be numbered among “your people” in the future. The next steps are meeting the family and moving her into your place. These parts of a relationship take time and investment, but you have to tackle them if you’re looking to elevate your connection. You have to move from uncertainty to certainty, and that means putting a label on the relationship.
And remember, no one loses a relationship because of one bad kiss. Know you’ve got plenty more practice coming if you’re doing everything else right. Not every guy who is interested in a girl who isn’t interested in him is stuck in the friend zone.
It’s important however to do it right, or else you’ll come across creepy. With flirting I mean showing her clearly that you’re interested. If you don’t, then you risk being seen as “just a friend”. Every girl is at least a little crazy some of the time.
If you don’t communicate your interest to a woman you like when you first meet, she can never see you as someone she’ll experience intimacy with. She’s already categorised you in her head. If you’re out socially, and you can tell someone feels not included, a considerate and truly social person would make sure they feel involved and have empathy for everyone. Choosing to not care about that is indicative of your character, and it’s telling that you notice if not everyone is having a great time and go out of your way to try and change it.
All you have to do is create a profile with some of your best pictures and then start swiping. Don’t worry about hook-ups or taking things further. Just build a connection.
Girls want to feel appreciated and valued and if they think they are a short term sex object, you will never score. Women love to feel special, no doubt. So if you are talking with a girl and you can sense, see and feel she is losing interest in you, then you are about to be rejected.
This rule is here to make sure you don’t just settle for that first girl. To assure you’re not chasing anymore. To assure you WILL be ready when the time and the right woman comes along. Time to get past all the negative shit and just accept it – she’s with him and not you and you’re not privy to their relationship. It has NOTHING to do with you and your relationships (or lack there of) and it’s a total waste of time to think negatively about it or them.
Be bold and assertive and raise this as an issue. Some people say not to, but I always bring up past relationships. If you’re sizing her up to be girlfriend material, find out why she and her last partner broke up.
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