BY brainwirez Updated March 4, 2019
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As I mentioned earlier, you can’t time when that right someone will walk into your life. It’s easy to say, “I want to be single until I’m 28 or 30, then I’ll find a serious girlfriend.” Well, good luck with that. Having some confidence in yourself will get you so far. And once you get the girl of your dreams, read this article on how to be real-life relationship goals.
Anyone who’s at a coffee shop past the morning rush is likely to be there for a long haul, which nicely eliminates any time constraints you may encounter when you’re out meeting people. #11 Be ready to commit. Make sure you’re ready to commit to being in a relationship.
You are sure of yourself and adamant about getting what you want. Zoos are great because you never run out of conversation topics and things to do. She’ll grab you when she sees a cute animal or a scary one and after you’ve seen dozens of different animals it feels like you’ve travelled the world together, so there’s this distorted sense of time like you’ve known each other for ages.
It’s found in the studies that having exchanged at least three to five solid online messages that include a good rapport, similar interests, and give you an overall sense of comfort. So, now you’ve been messaging your girl for a while and you know the feeling is mutual, so now what? The obvious next step is moving things offline and meeting in person. Stop working on how to get a girlfriend and start focusing on how to be a better boyfriend. Start working on creating that space that she’s drawn to.
And that’s ok — that’s part of the process and it might be something you need to do just like I did. Women are drawn to people who believe in themselves. Who know what they want.
Just build a connection. You’ll get better at talking to women and understanding them as well.
Don’t try to rush into a relationship. A healthy relationship takes time to grow and develop into something real. Don’t pretend to have something in common with a girl to get her attention.
Time to get past all the negative shit and just accept it – she’s with him and not you and you’re not privy to their relationship. It has NOTHING to do with you and your relationships (or lack there of) and it’s a total waste of time to think negatively about it or them. We look at the girl, we see the guy she’s with, and we automatically assume he must be a jerk – and we don’t even know him, her, or how the relationship even got started. Forget about sex.
Of course, if you’re taking risks and interacting with those women, it also becomes more apparent that they’re just regular people like you. Whatever your story is about why you can’t get a girlfriend — you’re too short, too bald, too poor, too ugly — is not the REAL reason you don’t have a girlfriend. And it’s not about money, status, or power either. I know you tell yourself those are the reasons you don’t have a girlfriend, and I know they’re believable. I believed them myself for years.
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